Name: patz Life and Love Problems? i hate my ex-bestfriend. why? coz she didnt keep any of her words. she said that she'll never leave me but she did. can you imagine? she let go of me..and it makes me sad.
Hey Patz, Iya here! I understand you. And if I was to be frustrated by my BESTfriend, I'd feel bad about it. But you know what? Everything happens for a reason (I know it's a cliche), there must be some BIG reason why she left you. Uhm may I ask you sis? How long have you been together as BESTFRIENDS? The longer the relationship the more clued-up you are about her. And you may identify whatever reason she has why she left you. Is it a boy? Some sort of misunderstanding? Another question pa Sis Patz, did she transfer to another school, place, somewhere out of your sight (I mean the literal meaning of leaving you), or she left you behind (I mean she forgot about you, iniiwasan ka niya and act as if ayaw ka na niya maging BestF)?
If she transferred to another place far away from you, Sis it's time to realize that it's a test. God challenges your friendship. Don't let "Distance" mess up your friendship. Talk to her/him online, send her/him letters (the usual advice). Technology advances, you'll never know it could take you back to her. Besides I knew a lot of my friends whose gone far away from me. We're still close. And Everytime each one returns, I gained lots of loots! Heehee. but forget about it, what matters is you've had your time. Give yourselves time to miss each other. Too much of something is too awful, bad for your friendship.
But...if the case is betrayal, then that's too hard to handle. You're confused, should you forgive her, after lying to our face, telling you unkept promises? You're only human you can't just forgive and forget everything in a blink of an eye. Give yourself time to reflect on "YOU" for a while. That means without her. Think of every moment both of you have shared, then after, ask yourself...should I just let go of her/him, despite her/him letting go of me? Same thing goes for boyfriends. If yes, then it's time to move on. If NO, tell he/him how hard it is without him. It's not that you beg that she/he comes back but you'll just have to show to her/him how "SAYANG" naman kung magkakalimutan nalang kayo. If she/he refuses to come back, then theres nothing more that you can do but to accept it. After all you've tried your best shot in telling him/her the truth. More will come. Yun nga lang sayang kung magkakahiwalay nalang kayo as friends. Sayang talaga. Pero kung yun ang gusto niya, we can't convince her/him to make-up with you as bestfriends. Talk things out. But be sure to find the good words to say okay? Like, "if you leave, I'll feel bad and it won't be easy to recover. you've been my friend since (insert date when your guys got together as BEstfriends). I'm sure it won't be the same for me if you leave." Medyo senti ang dating, but if you wanna win him/her back, you've got to learn to step-back and bawasan yung pride.
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